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He didn't reply. We always attended same events etc cos we belong to the same community so I kept distance and out of sight. I'm his first serious gf and I care about him so much.
Did the NC for 5 weeks worked on myself alot in that time. Got to a point now where I can see myself without him and I'm at peace with the unknowing future. So I texted him and textyku responded positively but every couple of hours for 2 days then I ended the convo on a high note and with a cliffhanger before saying goodnight. Where do I go from here, do I follow your guide about initiating again or wait for him to do that? I know I initiated the break up our first het he also didn't try to fix it hence the decision to do NC.
You could continue to start the conversation every blafk if he does not reach out first, in which you'd be able to gauge his interest level while building up a sense of familiarity in communicating with you again. Thank you so much Ryan.
I need to consider that he's currently interstate for a week so was thinking I'll initiate again once he comes back unless he does esx. Atleast then we could suggest meeting up if he wanted to, what do you think? Hello Ryan, An update - I initiated a second time and it was very positive consistent replies, he even threw in jokes etc. The conversation continued and I was ready to reply one last time then end it but instead, he didn't and hasn't read it for 2 days.
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About 2 months ago, she came around and broke up with me, and I took it badly - I was needy, wouldn't let it go.
It took me about 3 weeks to initiate NC, and by then I'd done a lot of damage. I recovered pretty quickly after that, and found this article, worked on myself, becoming more active, more confident, more sociable, then sent the Elephant in the Room text a week ago. It's hard to judge how well it went - she replied after Woman seeking casual sex Cut Off hours, saying she was glad I was OK, that I'm getting out more, etc.
I replied, asking about a cookie recipe I'd enquired about she likes baking, and during NC I started doing it tookeeping it short and ending it with an 'Ideal, thanks'.
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I have no idea who they are and I had nothing to do with it but he thinks I did, that's why I'm blocked. Do I apologise for those 2 people since he thinks it was me or do I not since I had nothing to do with it?
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She told me to stop pushing her. She even told me not to wait for her. She said she still misses me and loves me but she just doesnt want to get back together right now. Do you think there is still a chance to change her mind even if she told me not to wait for her?
She told me she still loves me and there are still pictures of our memories on her instagram as well. I wanna know opinion. Just give her time for now. Pick yourself up emotionally first and in the meantime, work on yourself to become a better version of yourself so that when you do contact her again, she may at least have a change of heart to reconsider the idea of getting back together.
So I did it I for sure sounded desperate, needy, hurt We work together. How should I go about it? I feel like he has serious dislike for me. Please help Keep personal conversation to a minimum and only communicate on a professional level. Other than that, continue with no contact as per normal. She was a widowed mom of 3 boys and I a dad of 2 girls.
I try to be very active in my daughters' lives. We dated for about 4 months, until I went on vacation to Disney with my ex and daughters, a trip that was planned for a long time. I missed the signs of how much it likely bothered her because she also isn't one to communicate her feelings openly, yet, she would always tell me how she was never so affectionate with her deceased husband when he was alive. She built me up in the beginning, introduced me to so many friends some her husband's friendsI was so happy this beautiful woman was taking such an interest in me and so I proceeded to be the nice guy, mistake.
Her friends would tell me that all she wanted to do was to spend more time with me and see me more, but I was busy. She's in school so not working and has time to spend with her boys all day, while I commute and work M-F. Still, I felt like I made time and thought having space wasn't necessarily a bad thing, even though she would always tell me how close her and her husband were inseparablewhich I don't always think is healthy.
Also early on in our relationship, she found out he likely cheated on her as she was sent a random message from some woman claiming to have known him. She buried that feeling and didn't want to talk to me about it. A few weeks before, she had gotten pregnant. I supported her fully throughout, offering help and she pretended it was ok, so we proceeded with an abortion. About 5 weeks ago, as I was finishing up the Disney vacation, she sent me a text saying that Looking for tonight Carson City to or cpl wasn't working out for Wives seeking nsa Cedartown anymore and she had been feeling that way for some time.
I didn't beg or plead, I told her that she never loved me despite what she used to say, she argued she does love me and I'm a wonderful dad and person. When I realized what she was doing, I tried to do the same to her, never thinking that she was seriously breaking up with me after all we shared.
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Looking back I realize that she may have had some narcissistic behaviors towards me building me up in the beginning, then breaking me down with judgmental comments, and now completely disappearing from my life.
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She was very spoiled by her father growing up and until this day and so I firmly believe her expectations for me were unachievable. Part of me also thinks I dodged a bullet given our child situation, but it still hurts that we couldn't work it out.
I'm staying NC indefinitely. I'm curious for opinions as to how my situation differs since I didn't beg or plead for another Chat black mature sex textyou get the point, I accepted her decision even though she initiated the breakup and I didn't verbally leave the Sweet seeking casual sex Belo Horizonte open for her to contact me if she changed her mind. Does that hurt or help? I also unfriended her from FB a few days later.
Open to any advice someone has to offer. Usually, those would require a longer period and have a Chat black mature sex textyou get the point chance of winning their exes back because of the change in views their ex might have of them after the breakup. Not verbally leaving the door open doesn't really matter especially if you're going on NC indefinitely because you would probably be the one to initiate Woman seeking sex tonight Gilbert Arizona again when you're ready.
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I Chat black mature sex textyou get the point this man but I can't stand being ignored. I want him back but I Chat black mature sex textyou get the point afraid he will continue ignoring me.
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It sounds like I am a runner but what can I do? You might want to consider the possibility that he is seeing someone else in real life which explains the periods he ignores you for no reason. We broke up a couple years ago because of my student loans and erratic choices.
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I recently told him that I'm getting engaged just to spite him but I'm not. He responded and said he is happy for me. But I genuinely just want him back. We've had multiple interactions where our conversations have been unpleasant because he would make snarky comments. So I stopped messaging him all together for like a year and a half now.
But in a honesty I just want him back. What do I do. Based on what you've said, it seems that he might not be someone worth trying to get back together with, especially if his underlying reason for ending the relationship was due to a financial one and even the re-contact hasn't been entirely pleasant since he would make snarky comments towards you. If you genuinely wish to still get him back, perhaps first sort your student loans out and find a stable job because that's what he seems to value as important things in a relationship.
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I have truely realized my mistakes. How bad is my case?? What should I do?? Use this article for guidelines on how to go about no contact, and follow the steps in this article on what you should do after that.
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