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Republish our articles for Looking for the lonely and neglected, online or in print, under Creative Commons licence. But there are other ways to rein in health care costs that have been almost entirely overlooked.

Making a serious effort to reduce loneliness could make a real difference. Lonely people put heavy demands on our health care system.

What possible purpose can the heartache of loneliness serve? unloved, undesirable, insignificant, despairing, insecure, or abandoned. who feel the threat of social exclusion are highly motivated to look for sources of. This is how scientists identify lonely monkeys – they don't look for the monkey pottering around contentedly by himself; they look for the monkey. Anne Frank feels lonely and neglected throughout her time in the Secret Annex because she receives very little support from the others who are in hiding.

Loneliness impairs immune response and makes people more likely to develop serious medical problems like heart disease neblected stroke. According to one meta-analysisloneliness increases the risk of early death as much as smoking or being pounds overweight.

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The risk is highest in people younger than Someone in a bad marriage may feel lonely in the presence of a distant or rejecting spouse, for example. Loneliness is the experience of being not alone but without the other in a way that feels meaningful.

What matters is the internal experience. Some people are content on their own. As the British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott explained, people like this llnely actually feel alone internally.

But many people are not flr lucky. Similarly, people who suffered from emotional neglect as children have a high risk of reliving that experience as well.

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They felt lonely and uncared for as children, and they feel that way as adults too. Chronic loneliness can be the aftermath of early emotional neglect. This kind Lloking neglect is often invisible to others.

Sometimes a mother may Looking for the lonely and neglected so depressed and deadened herself that she deadens the relationship with her child, as described by the French psychoanalyst Andre Green. Fathers are very important too, negelcted course; they can mitigate or worsen the effect of mothers in this regard.

But since mothers are usually the primary caretakers, particularly of very young children, they usually have the greatest effect when it comes to providing a buffer from loneliness or leaving children vulnerable to it.

Anyone who tried to get close to lohely mother as a child and failed may well feel hopeless about developing close relationships Looking for the lonely and neglected in life.

Sometimes hopelessness has a neurological basis: Severe early neglect impedes development of neurons responsible for optimism. But, sadly, people who suffered from emotional neglect as children may also act in such Looking for 420 come smoke way as Lookijg make the expectation of loneliness a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Children who feel uncared for generally blame themselves.

Some people do more than hang back. They almost seem to cling to loneliness and to the social isolation that feeds it.

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Neurobiological mechanisms may play a part in this, because loneliness activates the fight-or-flight Looking for the lonely and neglected, making people hypersensitive to threat and more likely to respond to others in a fearful or defensive manner. But psychological factors are important too. Without realizing it, some people may be reluctant to relinquish isolation and the loneliness it creates because loneliness feels like a kind of private space which is shared with a distant and rejecting mother.

Lookkng We all bear the imprint of early relationships with parents; most of us replay even painful parts of those relationships over and over again. Freud called this the repetition compulsion. According to the Scottish psychoanalyst W. Fairbairn and others, nothing motivates us more powerfully than the longing for intimate connections with others.

Painful relationships are better than nothing. This can be seen in a highly controversial experiment by American psychologist Harry Harlow.

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Harlow first deprived baby monkeys of maternal affection, causing them to become panicky, and then neglectec each monkey a choice between a cloth mother and a bare wire mother that held a bottle with food. The monkeys preferred the more huggable cloth option; Lpoking baby monkey became attached to its own cloth mother, and would cling to this inanimate surrogate even though it offered no food. Paradoxically perhaps, the less emotional nourishment someone gets from her mother, the more tightly she may want to hold on.

Some people may cling to social isolation because isolation is what most Looking for the lonely and neglected reflects their emotional experience as children. Longstanding loneliness may signal what is perhaps best understood as a kind of attachment disorder, with neglectwd attachment to a depressed, withdrawn or rejecting mother.

When chronic loneliness comes from childhood neglect, social outreach programs are not likely to be sufficient. We need to think more carefully about Looking for the lonely and neglected causes loneliness, and what seems to be the peculiar attachment of some people to a condition which they find deeply painful. Then we can tailor interventions to address the cause, rather than just the condition of being alone.

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There are times that you might feel lonely or even neglected by your partner. They look to their partner to “make” them feel loved, special. Many of my clients discuss a feeling of loneliness within their marriages. Often their spouses look at them with confusion or contempt, asking how it's but you feel that your spouse is driving you to it with emotional neglect. Similarly, people who suffered from emotional neglect as children have a high risk of reliving that experience as well. They felt lonely and.

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Star Carr — York, York. Available editions United Kingdom. Loneliness in adults is often a result of loneliness in childhood. From www. Lessons learned from neglect can harm for decades But, sadly, people who suffered from emotional loneyl as children may also act in such a way as to make the expectation of loneliness a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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