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This phenomenon has commonly been called the "biological urge," and it's seen as part of women's biological instinct to have children. We're taught that it's something that's supposed to happen to women at some point in their lives, but what do we really know about the biology at work that creates this "urge"?

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Looking to have a kid We know that biology is at play when women are pregnant. Estrogen and progesterone kick in at conception and continue through pregnancy, along hace the neurohormone oxytocin, which fires at the time of delivery. Research also tells us that biology is at work once the baby is born, including how the mother's brain responds differently to different baby behaviors.

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Here's the truth that's not talked about -- For women, there is no real evidence to support the notion that there is Looking to have a kid biological process that creates that deep longing for a child. And the same for men; there's no real evidence linking biology to the creation of parental desire.

Similar to the origins of what I call "Fulfillment Assumption" in The Baby Matrix Looking to have a kid, the answer first goes back to pronatalist notions that were created about parenthood generations ago, when society needed to encourage people to have lots of children.

In addition to pushing the idea that parenthood was "the" path to fulfillment in lifeanother had to do with the idea that "normal" women experience an instinctual longing from within to have a child, and if they didn't there was something wrong with them.

This belief is part of the larger pronatal "Destiny Assumption" that was created many years ago, that, like the Fulfillment Assumption, has stuck long after its usefulness. The deep feelings of wanting to have a Looking to have a kid have their roots in Looking to have a kid learned desire from strong, long-standing social and cultural pronatal influences -- not biological ones.

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Early feminist Lena Hollingsworth gets Looking to have a kid the heart of why it isn't: If the "urge" was actually innate or instinctual, we would all feel itshe argues -- and we don't.

If kix were instinctive, there would have been no need to introduce social messaging to encourage and influence reproduction.

When you were thirty and single, you believed you had plenty of time to find a partner, and have children. Only now you're at the other side of. 5 days ago I know, I know: the idea of having a baby may be a glimmer from where 7 Things To Do NOW If You Want To Have A Healthy Baby Someday .. options, like meditation and exercise, another place to look for anxiety relief. To have or not to have children is one of the most important decisions After having a child you become responsible for their life and because of I have been desperately looking for a good reason why someone would.

If it were instinctive, there would be no need for social and cultural pressures to have children. When it comes to the "biological urge," it's time to shift our thinking to reflect what is real. Realizing that the "longing" is not something that will automatically descend upon us allows us to better explore its Looking to have a kid within us.

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Is it truly to raise a child, or is it another yearning I think a child will fill for me hve my life? Realizing that a Looking to have a kid for parenthood is not a biological imperative allows us to look harder at why we think we want children and ferret out how much of it comes from external conditioning.

Seeing the truth about the "biological urge" ultimately helps us make the best parenthood choices for ourselves, our families and our Loking. Laura is the author of The Baby Matrix: Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you.

The deep feelings of wanting to have a child have their roots in a learned desire from strong, long-standing social and cultural pronatal. My ovaries have baby fever, and they believe wholeheartedly that I want a baby too. Here's how It's what I dreamed of as a kid myself, looking into my future. Modamily aims to help single people who want a baby to find other people still single, and looking for a partner they can have a child with.

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