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Finding new friends after 60 can definitely be a challenge. But, if you face your fears, define what you are looking for in a friendship, make the most of your own network and reach out to people who share your interests, there is no need to be lonely. You deserve to have friendship in your life and I hope that you find people that make you truly happy! What do you think? Have you found it easier or harder to make friends after sixty?
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Finding friends is important at any age, and this is especially true for women over You will love her honest and sometimes irreverent talk about menopause, intimacy, dating and the mindset needed for reinvention in loneoy 60s. It was more difficult after being married in my 50s, but as I get older, it is becoming easier to find people to do things with and one does not need intimate friends or datig, although if you find them it is very nice. I never had but 1 or 2 friends so no different now.
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I have learned to stay busy at home, or do things by my self. Easier to find friends everywhere…. Found it hard to have real friends who were not asking for flavours Or needed constant contact. We are much more on an equal footing after 60.
Living in a small town for 3 years. Had to make new friends. I found many very interesting women my ages, retired. I even made two really good new friends. I never had difficulty bonding with aanting. Making acquaintances — easy, friends — not so easy — linely since my main focus is improving and empowering myself. I have 2 good friends,who I see once a month. I am esniors working so dont have seniora much spare time.
Janet has lots of friends and I have been out with them a few times, so am integrating into the group. I think its important to have friends and it will be even more so when I retire in March!!! Hugs from Texas, as well! The past 5 years, 4 of my close friends passed … ages I do make Married lonely wanting dating for seniors effort to stay in touch with other friends, but not all the time.
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Her new boyfriend obviously does not allow her to make contact as this is so out of character, oh well life goes on — its better to have a few really good friends than many who are not genuine is my motto.
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I have a small farm here in NC. My home state is NJ on the shore … not having any success in sending you this message! Hi Molly — I hope I am doing this right and you are getting my reply to your message to me. How fortunate that you have a horse — I am a lifetime horse-lover but being a city girl, never had one of my own.
I did, happily, get to help train two thoroughbreds in Va. Loved it. How do you spend your days? With a ranch, I assume you might have other animals besides your horse. I love all animals, have always had more than one pet mostly cats but put my last cat down last year cried a lot for awhile and still miss her.
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I was raised in a pretty normal family, a middle child — only girl of three kids and I understand my dad really wanted a girl when I was born they had a family party for me at birth but, for some reason, both parents espec. I asked that very question many times.
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Which is a small community. So all I do is go to work and go home to an empty place. Day in and day out. All my family and friends want me to move back home. I can not afford to live there. As the housing is so expensive. I do have a plan to pay off my vehicles. Then after that I plan on taking the deep sleep.
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